disappearing then reappearing????

[dazzlingd_PREV (deleted)]

A multiple choice test. What do you make of a man that goes out with a woman several times, enjoys himself and expresses this, calls frequently then suddenly stops and wont talk or return a womans calls/emails-*POOF*. A few weeks later decides, without explanation, to start emailing and calling again being friendly, wanting to see her, flirting, etc.?

A) The spy who loved me classified work assignment that causes him to disappear
B) Wants a booty call
C) Afraid of getting too close too soon or just plain too close
D) Couldnt find someone else interested in him so back to plan B--namely the woman he ignored
E) Doesnt know what he wants
F) All of the above
G) None of the above cuz I know exactly what hes trying to do

[bellanoche]

Except they never called back. Went out a few times, had a lot in common, had a lot of fun, then ... it's like they disappeared from the Earth. If any guys can enlighten me about why guys would do that, let me know.

And for the record, I pick:

Couldn't find anyone more interesting, so went back to Plan B, the woman he was ignoring.

[womanwithlayers_PREV (deleted)]

My feeling is that he is probbly married or living with someone and is sneaking around and it only able to "date" when they are at work or gone for a few days.

Womanwithlayers

[mandyf69]

Hate to say this, but from experience, there r alot of guys out there like that..

Could b anyone of the answer u have put..

Experience again and for the record i agree with Womanwithlayers

[/quote]My feeling is that he is probbly married or living with someone and is sneaking around and it only able to "date" when they are at work or gone for a few days..

Must b some guys out there, that are not like that ????!!!

Mandyf69

[meshepeshe]

Men are not always the culprits in matters such as these. Could it be in
some situations Men have pulled a vanishing act because they were offended
or perhaps something struck them in a very odd way or they were
just plain wary, even scared.

[afternoondelite_PREV (deleted)]

Everyone has to admit that men aren't the only ones to do this. B and D would be the answers that I've been guilty of in the past myself. D is the all around winning answer though. Nothing beats calling the one guy that I know will be around for me when I'm bored, lonely, and have nothing else to do. It's like having the "spare" around. All he would have to do is tell me no one time and I wouldn't take advantage of him anymore. Sadly enough, he never does.

[sweetnsarcastic (deleted)]

`I'd like to say D because it seems most likely, but there is also the option that the person is really busy. I know when I get really tied up it's like I can drop of the map for days or weeks at a time. Although if I was considering dating someone I would at least let them know if I was that busy.

[rocknroller]

`More than likely, this dude has more than one pan on the stove! Women do this too because, I was a back burner man once.

[sassygoddess13 (deleted)]

`Yep just had it done to me. I believe that men will bridges to get to what they want.....if he ain't callin' he ain't interested. That's all I can go on and not dwell about it, ya know?

[truckerjerry (deleted)]

`maybe you should just ask him . face 2 face is best watch his posture , eyes and mouth if he is lying you will know